Non-sexual kink is a way to experience all kink has to offer without the sex.
It’s common to link attraction, arousal and desire but not everyone experiences them all.
Exhibitionism is the act of gaining sexual pleasure from being observed. Those who engage in exhibitionism are called exhibitionists.
Voyeurism is the act of observing others for sexual pleasure. Those who engage in voyeurism are considered voyeurs.
Shallowing has changed the way I have vaginal sex, and I think it will do the same for you.