About Me

Nice to meet you; I’m Lexi Kisses, I’m 27 years old, and I’m here to talk about sex! Now, if you want the long story keep reading.  

To put it straightforwardly, I’m a person who loves to fuck. Sometimes I want to be a little brat, other times I want to be a sadist crushing my lover’s throat under my foot, and in unsure times I am a  bit of both.

I will say one thing I am sure of is; sex is something I love, but not something I can regularly enjoy with my racing thoughts about it. That’s where this blog comes in. This blog acts mostly as my public sexual memoir. So, let’s start with a bit of background.

My background with sex started rocky. When I was Growing up, sex was taboo; I wasn’t allowed to see, speak, or have it. So, my natural contrarian ways kicked in, and I became a sexual deviant with a heightened sense of anxiety. 

Despite that heightened anxiety, sex was still a topic of interest for me, so I spent my adolescent years searching “girlsaskguys” for the answers to all my sexual questions. 

What I got were opinions from regular people who fed me fear as fact, and as you can imagine, this only made my stress worse, yet I still kept going back. 

I still remember the days of doom scrolling through misguided answers on sexuality and pain during sex. I was so confused about who I was at that time, and my only answers were from the teachers of the internet. 

Now Skip to the future; I’m an open bisexual, in a committed relationship with my penis-having partner Brad Sexton, and my sex life is finally enjoyable (at the time, I thought I couldn’t talk about sex if I wasn’t having it. When in reality, my love for the topic expands far beyond that). Feeling confident in my newfound libido, I started a blog to talk about sex. I had a lot to say about sex, so why not?

 I started humble, with toy reviews and articles uncovering the secrets of the dirty sex toy industry (turns out most sex things are skewed, even the ED!). These articles led me to better sex education, and I slowly began to realize I didn’t know as much as I thought about sex & sexuality. After that, I picked up Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski, and I was determined to educate myself and spread good sex-positive messages in my writing. 

So I’m no expert, just a person who loves to learn. From discovering my demisexuality to ranting about outdated stigmas. I cover everything I wish I knew and more (that being my random erotica). 

So, Who is this blog for? 

Well, it’s for anyone looking for a place to belong in this sex-crazed world. The Kinky Pinky is a blog dedicated to adults who also suffered terrible stress from sexual stigmas. It’s for the people who never fit in the realm of normal sexuality. And most of all, it’s for those who want to learn to love their relationship with sex.

I am not a professional nor have I been formally educated on a lot of the topics I discuss. I’m just a person who’s reading and learning to discover themselves.

Still Curious about this blog? Get Started with these posts!  

  1. The Sexual Response Cycle – What It Is & My Personal Experience
  2. Demisexuality and Questioning my Sexual Identity in my 20s
  3. What I Mean When I Say Sex Positive
  4. Nora Bluetooth Vibrator by Lovense – Review
  5. Business Discipline Part 1 – Erotica
  6. Bonus rant: Gender Stereotyping – Why I Hate It