When I first met my current partner, we were both still sexually inept, despite having had a few sex partners before. It took us years of communicating & breaking walls down for us to enjoy sex without stigma or past experiences getting in the way. Lucky for us, we overcame the obstacles social norms put in our way and now can enjoy sex with ourselves and each other. The journey of getting there was hard, but I learned a lot. Why am I letting you know all this? Because a few weeks ago, I had my first vaginal orgasm, and…